Post by Admin on Mar 12, 2013 16:16:45 GMT -5
Hey wives! How is it going? Your husbands have a message for you. They want you to know what sex means to them and why they love it. They want you to know that they are not monsters because they love sex; rather, they see it as a means of connecting with you and showing you how much they love you. They told me. And here I am, telling you.
I know that a lot of women have body issues and the men in their lives aren’t as clueless as they may have cranked them up to be. In spite of the left over baby fat, or those ugly stretch marks, your husbands think you’re gorgeous and there’s absolutely nothing that you can do about it. Every man thinks his wife is the most beautiful woman in the world and he is truly attracted to you. So, sometimes, instead of dismissing his compliments on your body, accept them graciously and love yourself in spite of your perceived flaws.
Now that the foundation has been laid on why he loves “to have sex all the time”, he wants you to know that “sex, to him is the same as talking ” Mr Tade Adeleye, who gave insight on how sex is to husbands, said after breathing and eating, sex is next on the list. He said yes, they can as a matter of fact, survive without sex for a few days, that doesn’t necessarily mean they have to love it. And it most definitely is not fun. Think about it, if sex is to your husband what talking is to you, then imagine going days without communicating with him. Yea, I thought so.
Want a happy husband, have sex! Frequent sex equals happy, attentive, listening, cuddling, caring, talking husband. Got it? They use sex to reconnect. I admit, a few women understand this concept but think about it, this way, using the example of a rechargeable lamp or phone. In this context, you, the wife, is the electricity switch (the base) and your husband is the lamp/phone.
The lamp may hold a charge for a while off the base, maybe even for a couple of days. But sooner or later, the lamp/phone is going to have to be recharged/reconnected to the base to keep the battery charged, the programming updated, and the phone usable. So, in essence, when your husband comes home from a long day at work, and the first thing on his mind is sex, it is not because he is a sex addict of a sort; it is just him longing to “return to his base” and reconnect with his wife in a “I’ve had a long day, and I need assurance that no matter how hard life gets, you and I are ok” way.
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I know that a lot of women have body issues and the men in their lives aren’t as clueless as they may have cranked them up to be. In spite of the left over baby fat, or those ugly stretch marks, your husbands think you’re gorgeous and there’s absolutely nothing that you can do about it. Every man thinks his wife is the most beautiful woman in the world and he is truly attracted to you. So, sometimes, instead of dismissing his compliments on your body, accept them graciously and love yourself in spite of your perceived flaws.
Now that the foundation has been laid on why he loves “to have sex all the time”, he wants you to know that “sex, to him is the same as talking ” Mr Tade Adeleye, who gave insight on how sex is to husbands, said after breathing and eating, sex is next on the list. He said yes, they can as a matter of fact, survive without sex for a few days, that doesn’t necessarily mean they have to love it. And it most definitely is not fun. Think about it, if sex is to your husband what talking is to you, then imagine going days without communicating with him. Yea, I thought so.
Want a happy husband, have sex! Frequent sex equals happy, attentive, listening, cuddling, caring, talking husband. Got it? They use sex to reconnect. I admit, a few women understand this concept but think about it, this way, using the example of a rechargeable lamp or phone. In this context, you, the wife, is the electricity switch (the base) and your husband is the lamp/phone.
The lamp may hold a charge for a while off the base, maybe even for a couple of days. But sooner or later, the lamp/phone is going to have to be recharged/reconnected to the base to keep the battery charged, the programming updated, and the phone usable. So, in essence, when your husband comes home from a long day at work, and the first thing on his mind is sex, it is not because he is a sex addict of a sort; it is just him longing to “return to his base” and reconnect with his wife in a “I’ve had a long day, and I need assurance that no matter how hard life gets, you and I are ok” way.
FROM WWW.TRIBUNE.COM.NG
